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Completing the 75 Hard Challenge – Was it Worth it?

Completing the 75 Hard Challenge – Was it Worth it?

My experience starting (and completing!) the 75 Hard Challenge! I cover what the challenge involves, why I started the challenge, 7 tips for starting it yourself, whether it was worth it, and 5 fun not-so-typical results.

 

On April 18, 2022 I started the 75 Hard Challenge.

75 gallons of water…

83 walks outside (and 1 run, lol)…

52 YouTube workout videos…

5 books…

Lots of healthy (and delicious!) meals…

and 75 progress photos later,

             I completed 75 Hard!

 

What is 75 Hard

75 Hard is a ‘transformative mental toughness program’, developed by Andy Frisella.

There are 5 simple tasks that you have to complete every day. In and of themselves, the tasks aren’t too challenging. The challenge comes in doing all of them consistently for 75 days straight. And a big motivation in completing them is that, if you don’t do any one of the tasks, you have to restart the whole challenge.

Yup. So, if you’re on day 72, and you miss one task, you’re back at Day 1. It’s pretty good motivation. The 5 tasks are:

  1. Follow a healthy diet of your choice.

    • This needs to be a diet structured towards achieving your goals, no cheat meals allowed. Alcohol is also not allowed, but as I don’t drink this wasn’t an issue for me.
    • For me: I think I already eat a pretty healthy diet, so I just wanted to continue with that but make some more consistent healthier choices – i.e. cutting out more indulgences, like vegan fast food, sugary treats, etc.
  2. 2 45-min workouts, one outside.

    • These don’t have to be intensive workouts, and one has to take place outside, rain or shine.
    • For me: My outdoor workout every day was a walk, usually in the morning. My second workout varied, depending on how I was feeling – I mainly did YouTube workouts, and plan to do another blog post with all of the videos and channels I discovered!
  3. Drink 1 galloon of water.

    • This has to be straight up water – herbal teas and flavored water don’t count.
    • For me: I’m not going to lie, this was the task I was the most concerned about, and the most hopeful about making a difference. I never drank this much water in one day, and when I first saw how much 1 galloon of water is, I was not sure if my body could physically handle it. But it did!
  4. Read 10 pages of a non-fiction physical book.

    • Audiobooks don’t count, and these need to be books that are educational and contributing to your personal development.
    • For me: I started with reading a few Christian books that have been in my TBR pile for ages. I then ventured into some more personal development/productivity books.
  5. Take a progress photo.

    • The rational behind this one is that it ‘teaches you that EVERY detail matters, as small and insignificant as it may seem at the time … and you can’t forget about them, because that is what separates successful people from everybody else.’
    • For me: I took this with my post-it note showing the number of the day I was on, usually in the morning.

 

Why I Started 75 Hard

The past two years have been some of the most challenging in my life. I moved back to the US, after living in London for 7 years, in the midst of the global pandemic. While trying to finish up my PhD, my mum was diagnosed with breast cancer. I paused my studies to take care of her, and then eventually (finally) completed my PhD in the spring go 2022.

So there’s been quite a lot going on. And during it all, I didn’t feel like I had a lot of time or space to put into taking care of myself.

75 Hard felt like a step (or 5!) towards doing better.

I’m also an all-in kind of person. Baby steps are very helpful, and I think a very effective approach towards building sustainable healthy habits. But sometimes, making a big change overnight (like when I started eating plant-based) is what works best for me. I just have to make the decision to commit to something, and then I’m all in.

 

Should You Do 75 Hard?

It’s completely up to you! I don’t think 75 Hard is necessarily for everyone. As I said, I’m an all-in type of person, so a challenge like this can be very helpful to me in kickstarting healthier habits that I want to integrate into my life. I think it’s important to know what kind of person you are and whether this would be helpful or not.

I will say that I did really enjoy the challenge, and would recommend it! It wasn’t always easy. There were several midnight yoga sessions to squeeze in that second workout. But the sense of accomplishment and structure is so beneficial! I especially appreciated how even on bad days, I still felt like I got in 5 tasks that were really good for me – and that really helped change the way I felt about that day by the end of it.

 

7 Tips for Starting 75 Hard

If you *are* interested in trying out 75 Hard for yourself, here are some tips!

  1. Have some books ready to go – either bought or borrowed from the library. Try to pick out some that you’ve been meaning to read for awhile but haven’t gotten around to it – this is the perfect opportunity to finally do it! And having books you’re excited to read is great motivation.
  2. Buy a half-galloon sized water bottle – it really is the sweet spot in terms of size, in my opinion. A full galloon water bottle was too big and overwhelming for me, but having one bottle I just had to fill up and empty twice a day made tracking my water intake so much easier and manageable.
  3. Front load your day  – it’s impossible to get all 5 tasks done in the first half of the day, because a couple of them can only be crossed off right at the end of the day. But getting a few of the easier tasks competed earlier in the day not only gets them out of the way, but also just feels really good!
  4. Choose a diet that’s accessible for you – if you’ve been wanting to try a particular diet or way of eating, this could be a great opportunity to go for it! But I would recommend not choosing a diet that’s too restrictive or crazy.
  5. Make one of your 2 daily workouts a walk outside – it’s the easiest way to get in an outdoor workout, I think, and is so good for you on so many levels. Two workouts a day can also be quite taxing on the body, so making one of them a walk can help give a bit of a break.
  6. Stack your tasks/habits – I found that taking my progress photo right before I went on walk ensured that I didn’t forget to take it. And then I could check off two tasks from my list in a row. Speaking of…
  7. Have a checklist – at least at the beginning, this really helps ensure you don’t miss out any of the tasks! Plus, who doesn’t like checking items off a list? So satisfying.

5 Not-So-Typical Results – and is it worth it?

Completing 75 Hard didn’t accomplish all of my health goals. It didn’t get me insanely in shape, or clear my skin perfectly, or anything like that. But I don’t think that’s the point of it. It’s a lot more about changing your mindset, and in that I think 75 Hard really did make a difference for me!

These were some of my…shall we say, less expected results? They may seem like small things, but to me they actually made quite a positive impact. 75 Hard helped me break out of a rut and get into a healthier routine, and I’m so grateful for that.

  1. I wore something different everyday. (Please try not to judge! We have been in quarantine for 2+ years 🙈)
  2. I did my hair differently almost everyday. This was mainly for the daily vlogs, but made for a nice change of routine!
  3. Reading 10 pages a day is such a great way to read those books you’ve been meaning to for awhile. It’s a manageable chunk, and I gained so much from the books I read. It’s a habit I definitely want to continue.
  4. I re-discovered how much I really love YouTube workouts, and found some amazing channels that I’m excited to keep following. I also found it mentally freeing to just get into the zone of completing a workout, whether it be a fun low impact HIIT video with catchy music, a meditative yoga flow, or a Pilates workout that required all of my attention and focus to do properly.
  5. Drinking a galloon of water was not nearly as difficult as I had thought it would be, and actually changed my mindset around tackling things I didn’t think were possible. It may sound silly, but I was really nervous about drinking this much water, and it was the main sticking point that made me think, at first, that there was no way I could ever complete this challenge.

I would definitely say 75 Hard was worth it to me. I actually kept up pretty much all of the tasks for weeks after completing the challenge because I loved doing them! But lately I have been slacking, so…

Stay Tuned…

Did you know there are more phases of 75 Hard? Well, I’ll be starting Phase 1 on September 1st, 2022! If you have a 30-day health challenge you want to start, or a habit you want to get into, why not join me? I’ll be sharing about it on my Instagram stories, so check in there! (First and Last instagram posts about 75 Hard)

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Final Reflections on my 6-Week ImpactR Challenge

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ImpactR Fitness Journey – Week 6

ImpactR Fitness Journey – Week 6

The final Week 6 on this Fitness Journey with the ImpactR, with the theme of ‘Feeling Strong’, a day-by-day account of the week, fav and least fav exercises, and some final thoughts on finishing this 6-week challenge!

THE FINAL WEEK

Back in Week 2, Deanna asked me to sum up our session in one word. That’s what inspired these weekly themes and reflections! At the time the first word that popped into my mind was ‘sweaty’ (there’s that deep philosophical PhD education coming out). But Deanna’s word for me that day was ‘strong’. I distinctly remember thinking in that moment, Oh I’m not there yet. But alongside that thought came another just as quickly…But maybe by the end of these 6 weeks, I will be.

It’s interesting to reflect on the evolution and growth that has happened in 6 weeks (I have a whole post focusing on just that coming next!). In some ways it feels like it passed in the blink of an eye. In other ways it feels like so much has happened and a transformation occurred, or at least started to. Because this week, I did feel kind of strong! And that felt like big progress in itself.

FEELING STRONG

There is definitely more room to continue growing (when is there not?!). But this week I felt a bit of a shift – feeling more confident to tackle moves, to match Deanna’s reps, to take Jeremy’s challenges a bit further than before. There were moves I couldn’t even attempt weeks ago, that I could actually (kind of) do this week. I felt more energy and motivation in each session, despite not getting a lot of sleep and having a lot going on. I finished sessions feeling tired and worked, but also energised and enthused.

Strength comes in many different shapes and forms – it’s not just physical strength, but also mental, emotional, etc. This journey has touched on all those things. And finishing Week 6 feeling strong and confident was more than I could have asked for at the start of this journey.

 

WEEK 6 DIARY

Going into this final Week 6, I was excited and, I’ll admit it, kind of scared. Deanna sent me the workouts for the week in advance and reading through them left me feeling just a little (lot) bit daunted. Jeremy helped design this final week’s workouts, to give an extra push to the finish line. Boy, could I tell. But despite feeling a bit apprehensive and intimidated, I was motivated to tackle this final week and end strong.

DAY 1 – MAY 26th, 2021

Today felt next level. I think it’s because today’s workout was all about combination exercises, adding moves onto moves with the ImpactR. That means there’s a lot more to focus on, and a lot more getting worked, hitting multiple muscle groups and engaging the core, arms, and legs. It really works the whole body. But this keeps things super engaging and makes it extra exciting to get through the workout!

There was one move that involved lifting the ImpactR out in front with arms straight. Just last week this move was not even possible. I went into today’s session a bit skeptical. But to my surprise and utter delight, it happened! I could lift the ImpactR with arms straight. I’m sure my form and everything still needs work. But the fact that the ImpactR was lifted with straight arms at all…I was shocked and so excited!

Fav exercise of the day – I’m enjoying slams more and more. I feel like I’m finally getting the hang of control and less bounce, which is exciting! One-leg lunges while also pressing up the ImpactR might’ve been one of my other fav moves of today’s workout. Possibly because I could kind of sort of do it. Plus it just really makes you feel strong to combine moves like that!

Least fav exercise of the day – Piston squats, OMG these are hard! With the bell up, …yeah, I can’t really do them. It’s a lot to think about, balancing as you do a one leg lunge, while also pushing a heavy rod of metal away from your body using just the strength of your arms. This one needs work, but even just attempting felt like a small victory.

 

DAY 2 – MAY 27th, 2021

Jeremy led us in today’s workout, and I felt pushed more than ever before. Deanna and Jeremy both have such amazing energy. Getting them together today was both a challenge and a treat. We got through 3 sets, and I still don’t quite know how, LOL. My shoulders and arms both feel like jelly. I took some harder modifications to give myself that extra challenge, because of Jeremy’s encouragement. I am sure I wouldn’t have done that if I was doing this workout on my own. This is just one of the (several) ways that Deanna and Jeremy really make such a difference!

Fav exercise of the day – Straight arm raises. It may or may not be ‘cause I’m just excited I can actually do these now!

Least fav exercise of the day – Arnold presses. Jeremy kindly modified this exercise for me because the first round showed how it was just not happening. My arms are not quite there (yet). BUT, that’s how I felt about straight arm raises last week, and look at how they’re going now!

 

DAY 3 – MAY 28th, 2021

WE DID IT! Finishing off today’s workout feeling strong and confident felt so good. Deanna was there cheering me every step of the way through this final workout. There were tangible moments of progress again in today’s session. One-handed lifts of the ImpactR absolutely could not have happened before, but today they somehow did. I did have to add an assist at times, and again the form was a bit shaky. But it’s definitely big progress. Plus, I did some push-ups without my knees down, which felt like a big deal as well. I think it’s good to mark those occasions and celebrate them alongside the bigger wins too!

Fav exercise of the day – It could actually be push-ups! I can feel the progress and that’s always so motivating. I feel like I’m going deeper with this move, and again, getting in some without being on my knees felt a big deal.

Least fav exercise of the day – Sit up twists are still one of the banes of my exercising existence. I just find core work so difficult. But on a happier note, a least fav exercise from the start of this journey was tricep swings, and today these definitely felt easier to do.

 

FINAL THOUGHTS

I cannot believe how quickly these 6 weeks have gone by. This week felt the hardest by far. The workouts were more intense, there were less breaks, moves from weeks ago were built upon, and I was pushed to take harder modifications and use the ImpactR in even more challenging ways. There were times when I wasn’t sure if I’d be able to get through all the reps, or to even execute an exercise.

But somehow in the moment you dig deep and just tackle it head on. It’s a very present feeling, not focusing on what exercise is coming next (cause Deanna would just tell me when the time came), or how many are left to go, but just getting each rep done and then the next one. Then before you know it, you’ve made it to the end! Sometimes you modify, or slow down, or try again later, and that’s ok too. Because there’s always tomorrow as well, to improve and reach even higher.

For the last six weeks I have done 45 minutes of intense exercise more than I had for over a year really. It might not sound like much, but I can distinctly point to very tangible points of progress. I feel stronger, definitely had more energy in workouts as they went along, and could tackle moves I couldn’t have imagined myself doing Week 1. All in just 15 minutes, 3 times a week. Who knew that’s all it can take? I’m so grateful to Deanna and Jeremy for the opportunity, accountability, and for cheering me along the way.

More final reflections will be coming as I take in finishing off this challenge! ALSO, don’t forget to enter our giveaway to celebrate finishing off this 6-Week Challenge – you could win your very own ImpactR (running Monday, May 31st – June 7th, 2021)!!

 

THE SERIES

If you missed the earlier posts of my ImpactR Fitness Journey series, make sure you catch up with:

 

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ImpactR Fitness Journey – Week 5

ImpactR Fitness Journey – Week 5

Week 5 with the ImpactR, with the theme of ‘Just Do It’, the usual day-by-day account of the week, fav and least fav exercises, and 3 more weekly goals going into the final week of this 6-week challenge!   JUST DO IT Going into week 5, 

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ImpactR Fitness Journey – Week 4

ImpactR Fitness Journey – Week 4

Week 4 with the ImpactR, talking about mindful reflection during a fitness routine, more of my least and fav workout exercises from the week, and as always, a day-by-day account of the week.

MINDFUL REFLECTION

For me, Week 4 was a combination of ramping up while also mentally slowing down. Here’s what I mean. Halfway through this ImpactR journey, I wanted to get a bit more mindful and reflective about the whole experience. My goals from Week 3 were very much along those lines. You may be thinking, isn’t that what these blog posts are all about? 100% yes! But I’m talking about more intentional reflection before and after my ImpactR session.

This week, mindful reflection has looked like taking just 5 minutes to do some simple yoga stretches before hopping on my Zoom call with Deanna. It’s also meant taking a few minutes after a session to just sit, breath, and enjoy the feeling of having just worked out – recognising the strenuous effort and appreciating that I’m strong and healthy. It’s very easy for my mind to flit between the past and the future, but this week I’ve been thinking about keeping it a little bit more in the present.

 

WEEK 4 DIARY

Day 1 11th May, 2021

‘Strong Mind, Strong Body.’ Deanna said this and it became a bit of a mantra for me pushing through today’s workout. Especially those push-ups.

The first day of the week often feels harder than I hope for. I go in thinking that 2-3 days off will have helped my body recover. I’m sure it does! But I think it also makes it forget how hard these workouts can be.

Today was very arm focused, and I couldn’t help but feel a bit discouraged by how difficult some moves felt. Deanna demonstrated one-arm barbell side lifts, which were just not possible, and push-ups felt increasingly difficult. But it’s all something to continue working on! Deanna was super encouraging, saying I couldn’t have done this workout week 1, and I believe her.

 

Fav exercise of the day – Bicep curls. These don’t look like much, but I really do feel the targeted engagement! And yes, they also felt like a bit of a break during quite an arm-intensive workout.

Least fav exercise of the day – Single arm presses. When Deanna demonstrated these with one arm, I was floored. As I said, it’s something to work towards, but I’m definitely not there yet. I do appreciate the modifications available though. The move was hard enough using two hands! I can feel how it’s a balancing act, while also a strengthening movement.

 

Day 2 12th May, 2021

While yesterday was more toning, today was all about cardio. It’s good to mix things up!

I am amazed at how every workout is so different. The ImpactR is so versatile and I feel like I’m constantly discovering new things. It certainly keeps things fun, interesting, and challenging!

 

Fav exercise of the day – It could be one-handed plank rows. They’re kinda sorta awkward, but it’s cool (to me) to think about balancing and core engagement while also adding the extra challenge of lifting the bar with one hand.

Least fav exercise of the day – One handed slams. I didn’t think I’d even be able to pick it up the first time, but somehow we got through them; burpees are also quite challenging, but it feels so good when you’re done!

 

Day 3 – 13th May, 2021

This was a very core heavy day. That’s no bad thing, especially since my core needs to be challenged. But it also means today’s session was filled with moves that I found particularly difficult. My neck was aching slightly after, which I realise is not good news (gotta work on that core engagement and form). We pushed through though, and that in itself felt like an accomplishment!

 

Fav exercise of the day – Slam twists are a fun variation on the slam, and I do feel how it is specifically targeting the core. I feel a bit awkward with this move, but I’m sure it’ll get more comfortable over time.

Least fav exercise of the day – The iron butterfly is no joke! Ooph, just thinking about it makes my core hurt all over again.

 

UPCOMING WEEKLY GOALS:

  1. For core exercises specifically, focus more on core engagement so that there’s less neck tension and achiness afterwards.
  2. Challenge myself more by pushing the pace and taking harder modifications (when possible!).
  3. Don’t push too hard though – the upcoming week is a busy one, so keep working to find that healthy balance.

 

FINAL THOUGHTS

The after-workout soreness is both a blessing and a curse, right? It can make movement (i.e., taking the stairs) kind of painful, but it’s also a reminder that I did something good for my body, and that’s a wonderful thing!

With two thirds of this journey down, I feel like my handling of the ImpactR is getting easier and implementing slams without getting a bounce is happening more and more often. It’s all about focusing on engaging the core (it keeps coming back to that, doesn’t it?). Overall, I’m feeling a bit more secure and confident with the ImpactR. I do see progress and that’s encouraging to recognise. Looking forward to Week 5!

 

THE SERIES

If you missed the earlier posts of my ImpactR Fitness Journey series, make sure you catch up with Week 1’s introduction, Week 2 and Week 3!

 

DISCOUNT

If you’re interested in trying out the ImpactR for yourself, you can save 10% on their website using the code BEKAH10! This is an affiliate link, and if you purchase through a link/using my code I receive a small commission. There is no additional cost to you and it really helps to support me in doing this work. Thank you so much for your support!

ImpactR Fitness Journey – Week 3

ImpactR Fitness Journey – Week 3

Week 3 with the ImpactR, talking about showing up, more of my least and fav workout exercises from the week, and a day-by-day account of how the week went. ‘I’m excited to work out with you this week.’ Could there be a better way to